Public Fetish/Play
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I recently read a discussion on one of the fetish forums that I frequent and the topic was: “Is the public fetish scene going downhill?” I opened the thread with interest because I’ve been having the same feelings and wondered what other people were thinking.
I remember my first few big fetish events. They were so different from the little local ones that I’ve attended. So much more pomp and circumstance. So much more eye candy. So many kick ass outfits. They were truly almost magical experiences. Some of the people I’ve met at those first events are still around and I cherish being able to meet up a few times a year.
That being said, there is a bit of a “degrade” as far as what I experience. It’s no longer magical but I still do have fun. The costumes are still wonderful. So what has changed? The only thing that I can think of is. . . .me. I don’t think the events in and of themselves have changed much. The model for an event and even the venues have pretty much remained the same. I think my expectations grew and to be honest it isn’t fair to expect that the event will be bigger and better each time. It’s a task and a half to throw one of those shindigs that accommodate thousands of people. But just like a junkie will tell you that you never get a hit like the first one. . .the same holds true with fetish events. You can’t be “new” every single time. As a matter of fact. . .you are only “new” once.
I’ve decided not to complain about it and make most of each one. Try to seek out what-is-new-to-me and just have fun. Pontificating about the minutiae of each even defeats the purpose which is to go out and have fun. Hell, you can just sit your ass behind a computer screen and do that!
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I heard there was a new event going on in SC… although it’s quite small, it could be much fun though!!