Tease and Denial. . .helping you understand the DENIAL part
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There seems to be some big time equivocation in the fetish term “tease and denial.” I’m here to help you understand “tease and denial” and it pertains to *me.* I don’t care what kind of fucked up tease and denial you did with other people. That is totally irrelevant.
I take “tease and denial” literally. There is some tease. . .punctuated with denial.
The tease part with me isn’t going to involve looking at my pink. It will be me using your fetishes to bring you to a state of arousal. If your fetish happens to be the pink. . .then go subscribe to porn.
The denial part means denial. . .of your orgasm. Denial does NOT mean the same thing as delay. If you are interested in a “tease and delay” dynamic, then make that clear in the beginning. . . .(so that I can laugh in your face.)
Why am I even stating this? To minimize the “its not fairs” when I give you the denial part of the “tease and denial” you wanted so badly.
I love the Reality of it
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Some of you may not know my background. I don’t know how much of my biography I’ve penned online so I simply do not know if there are facts and or situations that I haven’t covered. I pro-dommed for several years while I lived in Atlanta. Some will argue that Pro Dominas are the puppets of their clients. That isn’t the issue I want to discuss at this time . . . so I’ll save that for another day.
The point I’m trying to make is that in a RT professional session, the interaction that was to take place. . .generally does. To elucidate: If a boy wanted a caning session, then that is what happens. There is no doubt in my mind as to whether the boy got caned or not. I doled it out. So this was my “reality”. . . what was said to be done was done.
Fast forward several years to my introduction to online D/s. Now I can dominate INTERNATIONALLY, right? Umm, that sounded good in theory, but the fact was . . .when a guy said he did something, 9 times out of 10 I really didn’t believe him. How and why should I be expected to do so? It’s only text and many things seemed implausible. And why *should* the guy be doing all these things – painful, humiliating things? I quickly became disillusioned. Online was just another “occupation.”
But as I grew within the “scene” and experienced more . . . there were little glimmers of hope. I came to peace with the fact that *most* guys use this as a fantasy and love to hear about the type of things they *could* be doing. Some guys actually do these things. The proof comes in various ways.
For some of the chastity boys, it comes in the form of painstaking documentation of video, random photos throughout the day, record keeping etc. It’s hard to fake-the-funk in the middle of the day when I demand proof of being locked up via a cell phone picture right then and there. Many things have to “add up” in that photo. When the photo comes back to me within minutes of my demand looking “kosher”. . .I’m a very happy Fuhrer.
Then there are those “non physical proof” things that lead me to believe that someone is doing what I’m telling them. When a guy claiming to make a certain amount tells me casually in the following months that he almost got his phone cut off because of a certain day of “financial fun” we had. . .I tend to believe how much he makes. No one plans to make a comment several months off attesting to some painful but pleasurable money mishaps.
Or those guys who constantly talk about being locked up in their cock cage (but have no cam.) Sure I believe that you have been locked up for 90 days straight for me. *wink wink* But to the guy last week that told me his cock is really itchy and stinking after being locked up for 5 days straight . . . I tend to believe that you are. You didn’t wait til the so-called 90 day mark to tell me there were issues. I do this in real time as well. If a dude can be locked up for over a week without chafing, itching, stinking, pain etc . . .I call bullshit.
So yeah, the more realistic it is for me . . . the more I get excited to interact with you. So when you tell me you were at the glory hole for 6 hours sucking numerous miscellaneous random cocks? I don’t believe you. But if you tell me that you folded your pillow a certain way and busted a nut into your pillow pussy but regretted it because you had to lay your head on a wet stankin’ pillow. . .my chances of believing you increase exponentially.
The moral of the story? Either tell the truth or make your “fantasy” plausible so that I don’t think you are a total douche bag as I’m shaking my head typing “Mmmmhmmmm. . . .”
New Options and Updates to My Store
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I’m sick. I hate that I’m sick because I just don’t feel all that productive. None the less, I’ve made a few updates to My store. A whole new section is available called “contracts and applications.”
So now you can apply for:
Now there is no need for endless chit chat about “coulda, woulda, shouldas.” Just fucking apply. If the paltry administrative application is too rich for your blood, then we probably wouldn’t have commenced any type of relationship anyway.
Get your thumb out of your ass and start serving. A man is a total waste of cellular material if he isn’t of some use to a woman.
Grading my bitch’s assignment (VIDEO)
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I gave the bitch an assignment to do. He was to leave a pretend voice mail for me inviting me to a tea party. I must admit that I peed on myself the first time I listened to it. That’s the one thing I really enjoy about him. . .he makes me laugh so much. I think I’ll keep him. . .for now. He’s quite retarded and sometimes he even gets a bit cocky.
Want to do some assignments for me? Head to my Media Store and get started!
My bitch gets a GIRL FRIEND!!!
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So the dirty bitch is busy doing my assignments. I be he is having FUN and popping BIG. . . .errrr. . .tiny WOOD because of it as well. Which is unfortunate for him because he is not locked in chastity. That’s right. . .I OWN his cock. Not only is his itty bitty pecker locked in a cock cage, he’s wearing points of intrigue as well so that his erections (if you can call it that) are extremely painful as well. I made him mail me the shortest points (they come in a set of three with varying lengths) so that he will have to either wear the medium or long spikes. HAHAHAHAHAHA. . .I’m such a cunt.
Because he is such a loser. . .he can’t get a girl friend. I feel kind of sorry for him so I’ve decided to GIVE him one! Now he has a pillow dressed in a sexy nighty that he can call his girl friend. He can hug on it. . .kiss it. . .and HUMP it when I let him out of his cage. Wanna see a picture of her? Here she is!!!!
Heil Herrin!
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Lucky for you. Once again I grace you with one of my communiques.
First order of business. For those that are locked in chastity for me, I’ve extended the date of release. I’m not satisfied that you have suffered enough nor have you demonstrated your dedication sufficiently. One more week.
Second. I’m not here to idly chit chat with those that aren’t actively serving me. Serve or be gone. Service will be dictated according to my specific needs and wants.
Oh yeah. I’ve launched a store so that you can experience even MORE of the Fuhrer.
Boy in Chastity (cb3000) with pics
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Bad boys leave their cocks out and hanging:
A girl's best friend: A chastity device!
KSD: Keeps your dick from "accidentally" slipping out
So intriguing! Try to cheat and it will HURT!
View of a good cock:
Another view of a good cock:
Keyholding / Chastity training available exclusively from the Fuhrer.
Serving Through Chastity
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I’ve written a post about this very topic on my other blog at BossyBlackPrincess .
Prolonged chastity is in store for my house slut. Something TRULY disgusting. As he was bent over the tub to wash my latex. . .he was dribbling pre-cum all over the floor! It hasn’t been THAT fucking long since he’s been locked up.
I just happened to pass by and look in to check on his progress and I see this sparkling line of gooey fluid dripping between his legs. I follow the trail straight to his CB3000. I don’t appreciate male creatures leaving DNA all over my house. So disgusting. The bad part is: He didn’t even know he was leaking.
The key to his device is stored safely in my panties. I’m such an AWESOME keyholder!